Destination detoured, objective unchanged. Peace, warmth, shelter, perhaps solace, but definitely determination. 

You can’t be prepared for the decisions of others. You can’t be expected to deal with what’s thrown at you. Some people have switches, others would rather go through hell than just turn off. 

Coldness is a choice. The wrong choice. So as hostility builds and resentment does its best to become your master remember what brought you here.